Lammas – 15º Leo
On
or about August 1
Waning Light, Height of Summer
Focused on exploring our relationship to collective consciousness or group
Seeks to win the approval of the group
by being special
Reaping
the rewards of your efforts, goals reached
Recognizing and Honoring Sacrifices made to achieve goals
Lammas
– Correspondences
Colors – Red, Gold, Yellow, Orange
Gods – Holly King, Mother Aspect
Direction – South West
Corn, Hay, Gourds, and Harvest Items
Magic – Offering Thanks for the sacrifices made by
others on our behalf, honoring our fathers, healing the wounds of childhood
Lammas is a celebration of the First Harvest. It is time
that we begin reaping the rewards of all the hard work we have done in our yearly incarnation. You desire
to reconnect, and the first step in that is recognizing that you did not achieve your goals alone. There
were many helping you along the way. It is time to give thanks to those who have nurtured, supported and
encouraged you on your path. We offer thanks and share our bounty with those who shared our burden.
It is basically the Wiccan equivalent
of Fathers Day. We honor the Holly King for his sacrifice, and recognize that the sacrifices made by the
men in our lives are many. We are not taught to recognize all the sacrifices that our fathers make for
us. They leave early in the morning, and come home late, and we have no idea what goes on in their lives
while they are gone. But, they leave behind their hearts, and they bring home what is necessary to keep
us warm, safe, and happy.
Now that many mothers are working too, we have shared burdens and the sacrifice of our fathers goes even less
noticed. It is important to recognize that men express their love differently from women, and value them
for their contribution. Just as women want to be valued for their contribution to the family, men need
to be honored and valued as well.
Those of us, who have been hurt by neglectful fathers and husbands, should recognize that it is
possible that they were neglectful because they were never allowed to embrace their Holly King status by sharing in the powerful
moment of your birth. Maybe they couldn’t make the sacred transformation required because they haven’t
been taught their own sacredness in the circle of life.
As women struggle to reach our own sense of self-worth and sacredness, we need
to realize that men have lost the connection with their sacredness as well, and only through healing both sexes will we find
wholeness. If you have lessons to learn here, finding some way to express gratitude to the men who have
made you who you are today is a very healing ritual, and a big step towards balance and wholeness.
I grew up with a strong hatred towards men.
I was taught that they were to be blamed for everything that was wrong with my world. I grew up
despising my father, even though he was always there when I really needed him. He was far from perfect,
but he was there, doing the best he could. When I showed up one August with gifts of appreciation and a
letter expressing my thanks, he was stunned and it has completely changed the nature of our relationship.
In ancient times, our myths and legends tell us that Kings
were wed to the land, and sometimes sacrificed to the land to bring forth it’s bounty. Today, we
can recognize and honor the sacrifices of our own Holly Kings, and ritualize their gifts to us so that we may raise our awareness
of what they bring to our lives.
Our own Holly King, Lord Keslevar, sacrifices time with his family, personal aspirations, possessions, money,
and physical labor so that we may have the covenstead and a full-time Priestess to serve the needs of the coven.
None of this would be possible without him.
So at Lammas we give thanks and honor the God for all that he provides, and for all the bounty that we enjoy,
and our own personal Holly Kings, recognizing the sacrifices they make to provide for our safety and well-being.
A personal ritual could consist of making corn chowder and taking a card to your father, or writing a letter and mailing
it, or even expressing your pain towards your father in writing and releasing it by burning it.
Remember that by focusing on what your
father did right, you can change the way you remember your past, and therefore change what you received from your childhood.
There is much magic that can be done here.